Soooo, I'm training for the Chicago Marathon and needed to get some miles in...I only managed to squeeze in a 3 mile run that morning and wanted to get in 8 miles...that meant I either had to run another 5 on Friday, or do it on Saturday...I knew I wouldn't be up for running on Saturday, so I opted to have the girls drop me off about 5 miles from town...we didn't eat lunch that day and we were all pretty hungry...the girls wanted to get some pizza, so they dropped me off and headed over to the bar...it was pretty freaking hot...about 82 degrees and I was on a high from the jump...I had to change into my running clothes and did so on the side of the road!!! I grabbed my iPod, Garmin and cell phone and started running down the road. Cyndi said it was a straight shot into town, so I didn't have to worry about getting lost. There was a huge windmill off in the distance that I kept my eye on...I held a pretty steady pace...just over 8 minute mile for 4.8 miles...then, just like Cyndi said, I saw my van on the right side of the road at the bar....I was a sweaty mess!! I grabbed a shirt, went in the bar and headed straight for the bathroom to dry off! Perfect timing too....pizza just arrived and there was a pitcher of beer on the table! Mmmmm, yummy...perfect combo...and I was starving!! We finished off the yummiest thin crust pizza ever...still had about 1/3 pitcher of beer left....Cyndi paid Mel $5 to chug it down and she doesn't even like beer!!?!? This was the start of a crazy night!! After the beer chugging, we drove over to Cyndi's camper...we immediately put in our videos and watched them over and over...we totally enjoyed reliving our sky diving experience and couldn't seem to get enough!! We also had a camp fire in the back...imagine 4 girls with no families to worry about...we had a GREAT time!! Cyndi's mom and dad stopped over at about midnight...we watched the videos AGAIN! Then off to bed we went! I woke to snoring and heaving breathing at about 6:30am...OMG, I did NOT feel well...too many margaritas and Michelob Ultras...finally got up, but went back to bed around 8am for about an hour...we all got around, packed up and headed out...on our way home, we stopped back over to Sky Dive Chicago b/c Cyndi needed to get another CD of her still photos since hers wouldn't open...we stayed to watch some jumpers and I actually paid for my next jump! I have one year to use it...I purchased it so I'd come back for my second jump...no excuses!!! The ride home on Saturday was a bit more subdued than the ride to Ottawa the day before....back to reality, but it was fun while it lasted!!! Thanks everyone for sharing such an amazing experience with me!!!! Remember my favorite part...."free falling"...'till next time girls...
Saturday, September 27, 2008
Sky Dive Chicago!! September 26, 2008
Soooo, I'm training for the Chicago Marathon and needed to get some miles in...I only managed to squeeze in a 3 mile run that morning and wanted to get in 8 miles...that meant I either had to run another 5 on Friday, or do it on Saturday...I knew I wouldn't be up for running on Saturday, so I opted to have the girls drop me off about 5 miles from town...we didn't eat lunch that day and we were all pretty hungry...the girls wanted to get some pizza, so they dropped me off and headed over to the bar...it was pretty freaking hot...about 82 degrees and I was on a high from the jump...I had to change into my running clothes and did so on the side of the road!!! I grabbed my iPod, Garmin and cell phone and started running down the road. Cyndi said it was a straight shot into town, so I didn't have to worry about getting lost. There was a huge windmill off in the distance that I kept my eye on...I held a pretty steady pace...just over 8 minute mile for 4.8 miles...then, just like Cyndi said, I saw my van on the right side of the road at the bar....I was a sweaty mess!! I grabbed a shirt, went in the bar and headed straight for the bathroom to dry off! Perfect timing too....pizza just arrived and there was a pitcher of beer on the table! Mmmmm, yummy...perfect combo...and I was starving!! We finished off the yummiest thin crust pizza ever...still had about 1/3 pitcher of beer left....Cyndi paid Mel $5 to chug it down and she doesn't even like beer!!?!? This was the start of a crazy night!! After the beer chugging, we drove over to Cyndi's camper...we immediately put in our videos and watched them over and over...we totally enjoyed reliving our sky diving experience and couldn't seem to get enough!! We also had a camp fire in the back...imagine 4 girls with no families to worry about...we had a GREAT time!! Cyndi's mom and dad stopped over at about midnight...we watched the videos AGAIN! Then off to bed we went! I woke to snoring and heaving breathing at about 6:30am...OMG, I did NOT feel well...too many margaritas and Michelob Ultras...finally got up, but went back to bed around 8am for about an hour...we all got around, packed up and headed out...on our way home, we stopped back over to Sky Dive Chicago b/c Cyndi needed to get another CD of her still photos since hers wouldn't open...we stayed to watch some jumpers and I actually paid for my next jump! I have one year to use it...I purchased it so I'd come back for my second jump...no excuses!!! The ride home on Saturday was a bit more subdued than the ride to Ottawa the day before....back to reality, but it was fun while it lasted!!! Thanks everyone for sharing such an amazing experience with me!!!! Remember my favorite part...."free falling"...'till next time girls...
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Family Union - Provo, UT July 2008
Here's the story about my mom....
July 13, 2008
My mom, Linda, was born on April 23, 1949 in Wisconsin. She was immediately taken from her mother and was cared for by the nuns in the hospital. Shortly after, my mom was taken in by Williard and June Wolfe and was a foster child for over a year. At that time, Williard and June adopted my mom (because she was such a good little girl and so beautiful with "sweeping" eyelashes). In addition to my mom, Williard and June had a daughter, Nancy, who was their birth child and was ten years older than my mom. They grew up together as a family, but deep down she didn’t feel like she “fit” in and has longed to find her birth family. Growing up, my mom didn’t talk about being adopted and it didn’t seem like a big deal to us kids. I never really knew how she felt about being adopted until recently. Since her parents passed away a few years ago, my dad, David, has been researching my mom’s birth family. He’s very interested in genealogy and knew my mom’s birth name (Barbara Lynn Valliere). He found a book that was written by one of the Valliere’s and had to work through his local library to have it sent from a library in Wisconsin. My dad learned a lot about the Valliere family through this book and actually was able to contact one of the Valliere family members. I’m not exactly sure how all the details go (my dad is better to explain), but eventually my dad started to communicate with my mom’s cousin Leon (Boise). Leon was very accepting of the situation, but was trying to help my mom & dad figure out the best way to go about contacting my mom’s mother. My mom’s family is Native American and their culture is quite a bit different than our own…my mom didn’t want to disrespect anyone, so she patiently waited. One day, she got enough courage up to ask Leon for all the possible phone numbers that her mother could be reached at. She called and asked for “Doris”. Doris asked who was calling and my mom again asked if Doris was there. Doris responded and said, “Yes this is Doris, who is calling?” My mom said, “This is your daughter Linda from 1949.”
This was on May 14, 2008. Since that time, my mom and dad have made a trip up to Lac Du Flambeau, Wisconsin to visit with some of her aunts and uncles and other family. They are a traditional Native American family and are committed to continuing the Ojibwe culture and even teach the language. The family welcomed my mom into their family…my mom was even accepted into the Oneida Nation tribe!
My mom said she was planning a trip out to Utah to meet her mother….me, my brother and dad all asked if we could come too (well...I'm not sure that I actually asked...just invited myself). We were all able to rearrange our schedules to come out on a Thursday (July 10, 2008) and come back on Sunday, July 13. My mom, dad and brother all flew out Thursday morning and arrived in Salt Lake City, UT around noon. I had to work and wasn’t expected to arrive in SLC until 9:30 pm that night. They decided to go exploring while waiting for my flight to land. They went over to Park City and visited the Great Salt Lake….Brian (my brother) showed me pictures of the hundreds of spiders that were around the Great Salt Lake…I can’t believe he actually took pictures because he absolutely HATES spiders!!! They were really creepy looking too. They said it was an interesting walk to the lake…kind of mucky, stinky and dead birds all over. The lake itself was nice though and very shallow…I guess you have to walk out really far to get into deeper water. Anyway, I boarded the plane for an on-time departure and the pilot comes on the intercom…said air traffic control was holding all flights due to bad storms in the West. It looked fine to me, but I guess I’d rather wait than risk crashing in a major thunderstorm! We had to first wait for the storm to come, then pass over…we ended up waiting on the tarmac for 3 hours!!! So much for a 9:30 arrival….I called my dad and they went back to the hotel in Provo…Brian was beat tired since he didn't get much sleep the night before so he stayed at the hotel to get some sleep…my parents ended up picking me up at around 12:30am and got to the hotel around 1:30am. At this time, I was a bit wired and not tired since I snoozed on the plane. I took my bags in the bathroom so I wouldn’t wake my brother (we were sharing a room) and unpacked a bit…took out the laptop and went online. I ended up staying up until about 3:00am Utah time (4:00am CDT time). I woke up at 6:30am and couldn’t sleep anymore, so decided to get up!?!? We were meeting my grandma at her house at 1pm, so we had some time to kill. I asked my brother if he’d like to go for a run…we went downstairs and grabbed some breakfast, took our time getting ready, then met up with our parents. We heard of a nice place in the valley called “Bridal Veil Falls” and wanted to check it out. My parents dropped Brian and I off at the falls and we ran up a trail about 3 miles (completely uphill the whole way), then we turned around and met my parents about 1.5 miles down the way from the falls. It was sooo beautiful …mountains on both sides of the trail with a river flowing alongside it. Bridal Veil Falls looked like a wedding veil (hence the name) and was pretty amazing….the water was freezing cold…lots of kids were splashing around in the water completely unfazed by the temperature of the water. It was a good stopping point for us to hydrate and catch our breath. We splashed ice cold water on ourselves…wow did that feel good!!! Brian and I ended up running about 7.5 miles at about an 8:30/mile pace…I’m pretty impressed by Brian’s running….a year ago, he would have never gone running that far with me, especially at this pace!!! The altitude was a factor for us….we’re used to being right about sea level at home and we were about 1 mile above sea level (about 5,000 feet). We experienced about a 500 foot elevation change too!!!
We went back to the hotel after our run and got ready for the big meeting!! We showed up at my grandma’s house right at 1pm. My mom rang the doorbell and we’re thinking, “are we at the right house?”….my grandma finally answered the door after what felt like an eternity. She was sooo stinking cute I couldn’t stand it (standing tall at 4’9”). The initial meeting was a bit anti-climatic, like, “hi, how are you…I haven’t seen you in a while” (only 59 years!!!). I guess I wasn’t sure what it would be like to meet someone for the first time like this. She invited us all into her home (she lives with her granddaughter, Tina and her family). She had the kitchen table all set up for us to have lunch. We all gave hugs and took pictures…went in and sat at the table. We ate sandwiches and chips with the yummiest chip dip (made with Ranch and cottage cheese) and had lemon cream pie for dessert. She told us she likes to be called Dorie, not Doris, so I now call her Grandma Dorie!! We all sat at the kitchen table for a couple of hours. My mom had her adoption papers and my brother was reading through the documents asking Grandma Dorie questions. She confirmed a lot of the information in the papers and shared many, many stories with us. Wow, Grandma Dorie is an AMAZING person. She’s gone through so much in her lifetime and yet she is still so youthful and so full of life. She looks much younger than her 79 years and has such a quick wit to her. Grandma Dorie has a wonderful sense of humor and often cracks up when telling a story. She’s had open heart surgery, cancer, has diabetes, gone through the death of two children & two husbands, yet you’d never know all that she’s gone through. She has such a positive outlook on life and keeps incredibly busy. She loves to cook and won’t let anyone help her do dishes…she’s raised not only her children, but some grandchildren and other children as well. I see so many similarities to my mom….not only do they look alike, but they chose the same career path (nursing), they are hard-working individuals who value their relationship with their family, both of their dentists have told them they have small mouths (although none of us believe it), they are both full of life and quite a bit of mischief, they both love the color red…I know there are more similarities, but I can’t think of them right now.
As we were chatting at the table, my mom’s brother, Dennis came over to check in on his mom. He was surprised to see us here already…he stayed a bit, but had to get back to work. Later in the afternoon, Tina and her kids came home. We got to know Tina, Brad (Tina’s son), Kenzie (Tina’s daughter) and Bella (Tina’s youngest daughter). I had so much fun talking with and playing with the kids…their dog just had puppies and they brought them up for us to see…they were so small, they looked like little gerbils…so cute!! After about 4 hours of visiting, we headed back to the hotel to change, etc….we came back to the neighborhood (about 6 houses away) to my mom’s brother’s (Greg) house for a barbeque. We met sooo many new people!!! We sat in the front yard visiting and getting acquainted with everyone. They were all so hospitable…very welcoming and accommodating and had lots of food!!! I was only working on about 3.5 hours of sleep and after running 7.5 miles and the adrenaline of the day, I ran out of steam!! We went back to the hotel around 10pm or so to get some sleep.
Let me take a stab at laying out the family tree...we met most everyone at the barbeque on Friday night and a few others on Saturday....
Grandma Dorie
Linda & husband David
Brian & wife Rosarita
Logan
Jordan
Kristi & husband Michael
Andrew
Madalyn
Dennis
Sarah
Michael
Charles
Ashley
Pat
Tracy & husband Scott
Tyler
Nick
Dax
Carol
Tina & husband Chris
Brad
McKenzie
Isabelle
Jason & wife Ashley
Alyssa
Zack
Justin
Greg & wife Vicky
Derrick (Greg’s son)
Tiffany (Vicky’s daughter)
Patrick (Vicky’s son)
Mary
Michael
A picnic was planned for Saturday at 4pm, so we had some time in the morning. I talked my mom and brother into running a 5-K race in Orum (city right next to Provo) located at the high school benefiting an organization called “Best Buddies”. I mentioned it to my cousin Patrick (Pac) and told him that if he showed up I’d pay for his entry fee. We shook on it, but I thought since most teenagers sleep in past noon, there was no way he’d show up for an 8am race. Sure enough, he and my other cousin Brad show up at about 7:30am!!! I was sooo excited I couldn’t even stand it! It was a small race (about 80 runners or so), but a pretty nice turn out considering it was the first race and was not well advertised. I found it on a local SLC running website. So, the race starts and Brian was way, way ahead of me, Patrick and Brad. I guess Patrick and Brad were trying to talk to me, but I was listening to my IPod so I couldn’t hear them…they decided to go on ahead too. I’m thinking, “these guys are crazy…this is a bit faster than I’m comfortable with”. My first mile was a 7:20…whoa, my fastest time by far…no way I was going to keep this up. I could still see Brian, Patrick and Brad in my sites, but I didn’t want to burn out early. Brad and Patrick soon passed Brian, then I caught up and passed him too….I was behind Patrick and Brad, then at some point (maybe past mile 2 or so) I caught up with the boys…I said “good job guys!!” then went past them. We had to go around a park, then on into the high school stadium around the track one time. No way was I going to back down now!! I ran as hard as my body would allow and ended up finishing in 23:33 (7:35/mile pace). Brad, Patrick and Brian were right behind (no more than 1 minute after me). It was an awesome run!!! I saw my cousin Vicky along the way and it was such a nice surprise to see her cheering us on!!! My other cousin Chris showed up later (after we finished), but he was there to support us too!! Vicky and I went back to find my mom and I ran my mom in for the last lap…she finished in under 37 minutes!!! You go mom!!! She ended up getting a medal for being the oldest runner at the race…plus she placed in the top 3 of her age group!! Unfortunately, the first 9 runners (the elites) were misdirected on the course and ended up running an extra mile or so, so the race director couldn’t tabulate the scores. We’ll have to check out the website for the final results to see how we placed in our age group. We sat around a bit, drank water, and ate bananas & the best whole grain bread with honey…mmmm!!!
I needed to get in another 10 miles for my marathon training, so I convinced Brian to join me in another run. The plan was to have our parents drop us off at the top of the trail where we ran on Friday and run 10 miles…we were going to call my dad to pick us up after the 10 miles. So, we start running, it’s relatively cool (there’s almost no humidity in Utah…love it!) and we’re going at a pretty nice pace, considering we just ran really hard in a 5-K race less than an hour earlier. We stopped at Bridal Veil Falls to enjoy the scenery, fuel up, etc….we kept on going with a few water & walk breaks. We ran 10+ miles in about 90 minutes…whoo hoo!! It was so nice out that we decided to walk back to the hotel (it ended up being about 3.5 miles back to the hotel), but was nice to walk it out. We stopped at a 7-11 store and got Nesquick Chocolate Milk and ice cold waters….boy did that hit the spot!!! At one point, we were about to cross the street…Brian had just pushed the crosswalk button and he’s kind of doubled over and says, “A little help here!!!”. I look over and am thinking, what do you want me to do?!?! I figure out he has a cramp in his calf, so I go over and start rubbing it…little did I know that I was making the spasms worse!!! His calf finally relaxed a bit and we finished our walk back. I called my dad when we were in the elevator going up to our room to ask him to pick us up at Bridal Veil Falls (we had been gone about 2.5 hours at that time)…as I’m hanging up with him, he opened the door and we’re right there!!! We totally got him….LOL!!! Brian grabbed a bag of ice for his leg, iced it, went into the cold pool, then finished off at the hot tub. I took a little dip in the cold pool too (almost as good as an ice bath), then resorted to the hot tub for a bit. While Brian and I were torturing ourselves on our run, my mom spent the afternoon with her mom preparing food for our picnic…. I think they really enjoyed each other's company….Grandma Dorie actually allowed my mom to help out too!!!
We arrived at grandma’s house at 4:00, loaded up the vehicles and headed over to the picnic pavilion area. Another group was in our area and my cousin Vicky nicely asked them to leave because we reserved the area…they had streamers hanging up and other decorations for a birthday party…oh well, they moved to another area...besides, we had a huge group and needed all the space we could get. Our new family really knows how to have fun…they brought a karaoke machine, badminton net, footballs, volley balls, horseshoes and all kinds of fun things to do. We set up the tables and had enough food to feed an army. Everything was soooo yummy and Brian and I were absolutely starving since we didn’t eat lunch…we ate a power bar before our run and that’s it! We had spiral ham, baked beans, Grandma Dorie’s famous Indian fried chicken, pasta salad, potato salad, noodles with pork, chips with the yummy dip, fresh fruit and veggies….there were little cheesecakes and Texas sheet cake for dessert. I tried everything and it was totally awesome so I had to go back for seconds…ooohh, I was a little overstuffed!!! After eating, some of the family members performed…Kenzie and Bella did a choreographed dance, Brad played guitar and sang (played a song he wrote the night before and sang Hallelujah), Patrick played guitar, Derrick danced (he's as smooth as Chris Brown), Tiffany sang (she's sung the national anthem for the Seattle Mariners and is trying out for American Idol), Grandma Dorie recited a poem about getting old and even strummed Brad’s guitar….we took tons and tons of pictures of the entire family, of each individual family, of just my mom and her siblings (and grandma), just the grandkids and great-grandkids….we busted out the music and danced and acted silly. I even got Grandma Dorie to dance to hip hop music with me. I showed her some of my moves (not that I have any real moves) and she followed right along!! I was bumping with my cousin Chris....I have to say that our new family is totally awesome…every single person is absolutely great…they all value the importance of family all the way from the youngest to the oldest. I’m impressed at how close the family members are with one another and how respectful the children are…I thought most teenagers wanted nothing to do with adults, but not these guys!! I think they had as much fun hanging out as I did....I even tossed around a football with Derrick and Tyler...told them I throw like a girl, but they didn't seem to mind. Bella enjoyed taking pictures with my camera...I even kept several pictures she took...she may even be a photographer someday! Grandma Dorie called me over and gave me a beautiful beaded necklace that her mother made...it has a Kachina doll on it and is supposed to bring good luck (I can always use good luck)!! She also gave my mom some beaded jewelry and other items that were made by Grandma Dorie's mom. I feel honored that Grandma Dorie gave me a part of our family history....We called it a night when it got dark and the mosquitoes came out, but planned on meeting in the morning for breakfast before our trip back to the Midwest.
McKenzie
Isabelle
Jason & wife Ashley
Alyssa
Zack
Justin
Greg & wife Vicky
Derrick (Greg’s son)
Tiffany (Vicky’s daughter)
Patrick (Vicky’s son)
Mary
Michael
A picnic was planned for Saturday at 4pm, so we had some time in the morning. I talked my mom and brother into running a 5-K race in Orum (city right next to Provo) located at the high school benefiting an organization called “Best Buddies”. I mentioned it to my cousin Patrick (Pac) and told him that if he showed up I’d pay for his entry fee. We shook on it, but I thought since most teenagers sleep in past noon, there was no way he’d show up for an 8am race. Sure enough, he and my other cousin Brad show up at about 7:30am!!! I was sooo excited I couldn’t even stand it! It was a small race (about 80 runners or so), but a pretty nice turn out considering it was the first race and was not well advertised. I found it on a local SLC running website. So, the race starts and Brian was way, way ahead of me, Patrick and Brad. I guess Patrick and Brad were trying to talk to me, but I was listening to my IPod so I couldn’t hear them…they decided to go on ahead too. I’m thinking, “these guys are crazy…this is a bit faster than I’m comfortable with”. My first mile was a 7:20…whoa, my fastest time by far…no way I was going to keep this up. I could still see Brian, Patrick and Brad in my sites, but I didn’t want to burn out early. Brad and Patrick soon passed Brian, then I caught up and passed him too….I was behind Patrick and Brad, then at some point (maybe past mile 2 or so) I caught up with the boys…I said “good job guys!!” then went past them. We had to go around a park, then on into the high school stadium around the track one time. No way was I going to back down now!! I ran as hard as my body would allow and ended up finishing in 23:33 (7:35/mile pace). Brad, Patrick and Brian were right behind (no more than 1 minute after me). It was an awesome run!!! I saw my cousin Vicky along the way and it was such a nice surprise to see her cheering us on!!! My other cousin Chris showed up later (after we finished), but he was there to support us too!! Vicky and I went back to find my mom and I ran my mom in for the last lap…she finished in under 37 minutes!!! You go mom!!! She ended up getting a medal for being the oldest runner at the race…plus she placed in the top 3 of her age group!! Unfortunately, the first 9 runners (the elites) were misdirected on the course and ended up running an extra mile or so, so the race director couldn’t tabulate the scores. We’ll have to check out the website for the final results to see how we placed in our age group. We sat around a bit, drank water, and ate bananas & the best whole grain bread with honey…mmmm!!!
I needed to get in another 10 miles for my marathon training, so I convinced Brian to join me in another run. The plan was to have our parents drop us off at the top of the trail where we ran on Friday and run 10 miles…we were going to call my dad to pick us up after the 10 miles. So, we start running, it’s relatively cool (there’s almost no humidity in Utah…love it!) and we’re going at a pretty nice pace, considering we just ran really hard in a 5-K race less than an hour earlier. We stopped at Bridal Veil Falls to enjoy the scenery, fuel up, etc….we kept on going with a few water & walk breaks. We ran 10+ miles in about 90 minutes…whoo hoo!! It was so nice out that we decided to walk back to the hotel (it ended up being about 3.5 miles back to the hotel), but was nice to walk it out. We stopped at a 7-11 store and got Nesquick Chocolate Milk and ice cold waters….boy did that hit the spot!!! At one point, we were about to cross the street…Brian had just pushed the crosswalk button and he’s kind of doubled over and says, “A little help here!!!”. I look over and am thinking, what do you want me to do?!?! I figure out he has a cramp in his calf, so I go over and start rubbing it…little did I know that I was making the spasms worse!!! His calf finally relaxed a bit and we finished our walk back. I called my dad when we were in the elevator going up to our room to ask him to pick us up at Bridal Veil Falls (we had been gone about 2.5 hours at that time)…as I’m hanging up with him, he opened the door and we’re right there!!! We totally got him….LOL!!! Brian grabbed a bag of ice for his leg, iced it, went into the cold pool, then finished off at the hot tub. I took a little dip in the cold pool too (almost as good as an ice bath), then resorted to the hot tub for a bit. While Brian and I were torturing ourselves on our run, my mom spent the afternoon with her mom preparing food for our picnic…. I think they really enjoyed each other's company….Grandma Dorie actually allowed my mom to help out too!!!
We arrived at grandma’s house at 4:00, loaded up the vehicles and headed over to the picnic pavilion area. Another group was in our area and my cousin Vicky nicely asked them to leave because we reserved the area…they had streamers hanging up and other decorations for a birthday party…oh well, they moved to another area...besides, we had a huge group and needed all the space we could get. Our new family really knows how to have fun…they brought a karaoke machine, badminton net, footballs, volley balls, horseshoes and all kinds of fun things to do. We set up the tables and had enough food to feed an army. Everything was soooo yummy and Brian and I were absolutely starving since we didn’t eat lunch…we ate a power bar before our run and that’s it! We had spiral ham, baked beans, Grandma Dorie’s famous Indian fried chicken, pasta salad, potato salad, noodles with pork, chips with the yummy dip, fresh fruit and veggies….there were little cheesecakes and Texas sheet cake for dessert. I tried everything and it was totally awesome so I had to go back for seconds…ooohh, I was a little overstuffed!!! After eating, some of the family members performed…Kenzie and Bella did a choreographed dance, Brad played guitar and sang (played a song he wrote the night before and sang Hallelujah), Patrick played guitar, Derrick danced (he's as smooth as Chris Brown), Tiffany sang (she's sung the national anthem for the Seattle Mariners and is trying out for American Idol), Grandma Dorie recited a poem about getting old and even strummed Brad’s guitar….we took tons and tons of pictures of the entire family, of each individual family, of just my mom and her siblings (and grandma), just the grandkids and great-grandkids….we busted out the music and danced and acted silly. I even got Grandma Dorie to dance to hip hop music with me. I showed her some of my moves (not that I have any real moves) and she followed right along!! I was bumping with my cousin Chris....I have to say that our new family is totally awesome…every single person is absolutely great…they all value the importance of family all the way from the youngest to the oldest. I’m impressed at how close the family members are with one another and how respectful the children are…I thought most teenagers wanted nothing to do with adults, but not these guys!! I think they had as much fun hanging out as I did....I even tossed around a football with Derrick and Tyler...told them I throw like a girl, but they didn't seem to mind. Bella enjoyed taking pictures with my camera...I even kept several pictures she took...she may even be a photographer someday! Grandma Dorie called me over and gave me a beautiful beaded necklace that her mother made...it has a Kachina doll on it and is supposed to bring good luck (I can always use good luck)!! She also gave my mom some beaded jewelry and other items that were made by Grandma Dorie's mom. I feel honored that Grandma Dorie gave me a part of our family history....We called it a night when it got dark and the mosquitoes came out, but planned on meeting in the morning for breakfast before our trip back to the Midwest.
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We all met at IHOP on Sunday morning...almost the whole clan showed up!!! We enjoyed each other's company for another couple hours. My new best friend Bella sat next to me and I told her she'd have to come back to Chicago with me if she didn't eat her breakfast...well...that bribe didn't work!!! In fact, not only did she NOT eat her breakfast, but she proceeded to tell everyone that she was coming home with me that day!! Bella (age 7) and Madalyn (age 6) would be quite a pair together...they both have mischievous personalities and are so freaking funny (just like Grandma Dorie)! They are very persistent and usually get what they want...I really would have taken Bella if home wasn't so far away! We said our goodbyes, gave hugs to everyone, but it totally didn't feel like goodbye. We're already making plans for our next visit and my home is open if anyone wants to come out this way to visit...we went to the airport, waited in the Delta Lounge...relaxed a bit then parted ways. My flight arrived 20 minutes early, so I was able to take an earlier bus back to Indiana...my bus also arrived 20 minutes early, so I ended up getting home about 2 hours before I planned!!! I was wearing my lucky Kachina necklace, so I have to attribute it to that!!! I had one of the BEST weekends ever...We went out to meet Grandma Dorie and ended up meeting 20+ new family members...what a wonderful experience. I'll never forget my trip out to Utah and am so thankful and blessed that I have such an awesome family. This truly is the start of a new chapter in life....
Sunday, May 4, 2008
Nashville....
I normally don’t do this, but I wanted to document my first marathon in Nashville. Madalyn and I flew down to Nashville from Chicago on Thursday, April 24, 2008. I picked her up from school early and we rode the bus to Midway…we had some good daughter mother bonding time. Our flight to Nashville was a little bumpy, but overall a good flight. We sat next to the nicest man (a former tri-athlete) who helped Madalyn read the Spanish on the seat back and held on to her drink while she worked on her 1st/2nd grade workbook. I was mortified when she took off her Crocs and her feet were black! She was waving her feet all around and wouldn’t put her shoes back on. This guy was dressed in business attire and I was so afraid Madalyn’s filthy feet were going to touch him! Anyway, we picked up our luggage, took the shuttle to the Embassy Suites hotel and arrived around 8pm or so. My parents flew in from Michigan and arrived at the hotel around 9pm. I was starving, so we went down to the hotel restaurant and ate a late dinner. After dinner, we went to bed.
Friday, we got up and ate a huge breakfast…I ate a made to order omelet with mushrooms, tomatoes, spinach, ham, black olives and cheese with a side of bacon and hash brown potatoes. I also ate a bowl of southern grits (yummy) and some honeydew melon (I wanted to get fueled up for the race). After breakfast, we headed over to the Marathon Expo. I picked up my race packet and changed my starting corral from a 4:30 finish time to a 4:00 finish time (corral 12 to corral 9). Then we walked through all the different vendors. OMG, I couldn’t believe how many people were there! I bought some Pure Fit power bars, a really cool fanny pack, called a “Spipack” to carry my small items during the race and an awesome MuscleTrac roller thing to loosen up my muscles. I also bought my mom and I key chains and magnets/stickers (13.1 and 26.2) so we can be reminded of our experience. My dad and Madalyn were getting tired, so they waited upstairs while we wandered around…we all called it quits after about 3 hours. After the Expo, we went to a free museum downtown. The security guard looked like Elvis, with huge lamb chop side burns!! There was a lot of cool stuff there…I actually enjoyed this museum and was fascinated by the way the early explorers lived and we even saw a 3,000 year old mummy! We made it back to the hotel in time for Happy Hour (which my dad needed after hanging out at the Expo and museum all day)! My parents enjoyed Happy Hour while I sat in the hot tub and watched Madalyn swim. I ate a late dinner of Lasagna and bread at the hotel, and after 7 seven hours on the road, Mike and Andrew joined us at the hotel around 9pm. After dinner, my mom and I organized our things for the race; I took a quick shower to shave my legs and hit the sack a little after 11pm.
The alarm went off at 4am on Saturday morning….it’s “go time”! I was already wearing my sports bra, so all I had to do was lube up with Body Glide, brush my teeth, wash my face and get dressed. I did all that & quickly ate a banana, but for some reason, we didn’t leave the hotel until around 4:40am. The plan was for my mom & me to drive the van and park at LP Field (where the Tennessee Titans play football) and take the free shuttle to the starting line. Mike, Andrew, Madalyn and my dad would take a cab later so they didn’t have to wake up so early. The drive from the hotel to the parking area should have taken 15 minutes, but it took an hour and 15 minutes. I drank a bottle of Gatorade and was working on a bottle of water not knowing I’d be in the car for over an hour. I had to pee so bad I couldn’t stand it and I was getting nervous that we’d miss the shuttle to the starting line (which was scheduled to stop running at 6am). We finally parked at 5:55am and ran over to the bus area…no time to use the port-a-potties!! I thought we’d have plenty of time by leaving so early and at this time I was afraid that we’d actually be late. We hopped on the bus (thank goodness because it was raining) and took what felt like the longest bus ride ever to the starting area. I ate an almond Pure Fit bar on the bus to top off breakfast and drank a few sips of water to wash down the dense and sticky power bar. My mission was to find a bathroom!! We got off the bus and followed the other runners toward the starting area. There was a huge row of port-a-potties (thank goodness)!!!! What I didn’t see at first was the crowd of about 2,000 people waiting to use them! I thought I was going to die…I even considered going in the bushes, but that was almost as crowded as the potty line. We waited and waited and this guy in front of us found a shorter line, so we quickly followed him. I was a bit relieved, but our line wasn’t moving very fast. Come to find out, one of the johns didn’t have TP. A girl behind me found someone with their own roll and asked for a little. She doled out a few squares to a couple of us. I ended up going in the potty with no TP and finally was able to pee (what a relief)….the only bad thing is that I also had to take care of business. The few squares of TP this nice girl gave me weren’t cutting it, so I had to tap into the stock of four tissues I had in my pocket. I ended up using all four tissues right off the bat hoping I didn’t need them later! Okay, now the bathroom mission was complete, the next thing on the agenda was to get to the starting line…it’s now about 6:55am and the race was scheduled to start at 7am! I’m practically knocking people over trying to get to corral 9. I made it just in the nick of time…I gave my mom hugs and kisses, handed her my hoodie and rain jacket and lined up behind the 4:00 hour pace group. I didn’t have time to get a good stretch in earlier, so I was trying to get my stretches in while waiting for our corral release.
Corral 9 took off around 7:15am…it’s now or never and with the craziness of the morning, I wasn’t sure my head was totally in it! I started out running with the pacer (I don’t know how those guys run for 26.2 miles carrying a little stick) and was feeling pretty good. We were right on pace for the first mile (8:59). We were running in the rain to start, but it didn’t matter because of all the built up excitement and adrenaline…the “rolling hills” didn’t even seem so bad at this point. I’m not sure when it stopped raining; I’m guessing round mile 2 or so…it was overcast and somewhat cool (50’s or 60’s)….good running weather. I wore my name on the front and back of my shirt and it was exhilarating hearing so many people cheering for me! A runner behind me commented on how popular I was and I said with a big smile, “I wonder why?” There was a college student passing out Country Music Marathon wrist bands shouting that he’d been up the last 48 hours studying (yeah right). Others were handing out tambourines and everyone rang red cow bells. At some point in the race, a group of people sitting in lawn chairs outside their house cheering everyone on had a huge sign with my name on it! It was even spelled the right way…even though it wasn’t meant for me, it was at that moment. I stayed with the 4:00 hour pack for about 4 miles, and then at the 4 mile mark, I felt really good (especially since I was going downhill). I struggle going up hills, so I was hoping that if I gained some ground, that I’d be able to keep up with them at the end. I was actually ahead of the pack (mile 5 - 8:44, mile 6 - 8:59). I kept hearing Ron Plantz’s voice saying “stick to your plan” and I thought I was doing so well that my plan was to put one foot in front of the other and keep running under a 9 minute mile….I even had visions of Boston in my head (I wasn’t really thinking straight). Well, that didn’t last long and at mile 7 I slowed down to a 9:15 pace and the pacer caught up to me (Mr. Steady Eddie). I hung with the group until about mile 12. Then the real fun began!
The ½ and full marathon courses split at about mile 11. The ½ marathoners went off to the right and the full marathoners went straight up a hill…oh the hills! I was starting to loathe them…they probably weren’t all that big, but my legs were getting really tired and the slightest incline was killing me! At this point I even thought that I’d turn right, go with the ½ marathoners and be done with the madness, but I kept on plugging along. The 4 hour group was getting farther and farther away, but according to my Garmin, my chances of a 4 hour marathon were still good. I wore a bracelet that gave me the time at each mile to accomplish a 4 hour finishing time. I also had the same information tattooed on my left arm and as a back-up a 4:15 finishing time table on my right arm. I was actually on target until about mile 16. The spectators had thinned out and it seemed like more than a mile would go by when I’d see the next band. Some bands were really good, some were bad (too loud and too much rock). I actually enjoyed the country bands even though I’m not a big country music fan. I think somewhere around mile 12 I saw the runners from corral 1 running by me (in the opposite direction). I marked the time (1:43) and remembered a building (some Packaging company) and 1 hour and 6 minutes later I passed the same building (around mile 18)! Whoa, they were running fast! The high school cheer leaders were awesome…I loved them. They’d cheer real loud and even ran with some of the runners. A lot of them would shout out my name real loud all at the same time. There was even a group of nuns cheering us on, then a “holy water” station right after (of course at the top of a hill). I needed all the help I could get at that point! I saw a blind guy running the full marathon with a guide. The guide was in the front and held onto two horizontal white poles while the blind guy held the poles behind him. How amazing is that! Sometime before mile 16 we went off the road and onto a paved trail…it was really desolate at that point…just runners and volunteers and a couple spectators here and there. Some lady tried talking to me and she said this was her 5th marathon; her personal best was something like a 4:26 and said she wouldn’t be able to keep up the pace. I didn’t feel much like talking, but I told her this is my first marathon…she gave me some encouraging words and I wished her well and started to walk. Shortly after that, I was getting the feeling that I was going to have the “runner’s trots”. I had eaten 2 chewable Imodium tablets before the race started and I had two more in my pack. Fortunately, there was a row of port-a-potties right when we came out of the trail (someone was looking out for me)! I ran to the nearest one and took care of business and thank goodness there was ample TP!! This is the first time I stopped moving for about 2 ½ hours…even with this minor break, I ran an 11:28 mile. I ate the remaining two Imodium tablets in hopes that they’d cover me for the last 10 miles….I was out of tissue and now out of Imodium! The next four miles were a blur and after the potty stop, my hope of a 4 hour marathon was gone. I started referring to my right arm which had the 4:15 finishing table on it. I tried to think of so many positive things, like my family (Mike, the kids, my parents), my friends and co-workers (you know who you are) and even asked for Jennie Hamilton’s help. I trained with my friend Tracy (who just ran the Boston Marathon in 3:49) and I was really missing her company. No matter what I did, I couldn’t get rid of the pain and I really wanted to be done! I knew I had blisters on my feet, my left leg hurt from my ankle up to my knee (I’ve been contending with plantar fasciitis, shin splints and knee problems), then my pelvic bone felt like it was splitting in half and the outside of my hips bones hurt so bad I could hardly run. Going around a corner at around mile 18, the nicest lady spectator cheered me on and said, “You’re almost there Kristi, you’ll be so happy when you cross the finish line”. I acknowledged what she said and started to cry, although no tears came out...those words carried me a while and kept me going. A little bit after that, I actually ate a packet of salt! It wasn’t even that bad especially since I chased it down with some water…what the heck, while in Rome, do what the Romans do….I then saw Mike, Andrew, Madalyn and my dad right before mile 20. I gave them high fives and I got all choked up again.
Okay, so everyone says the first half of the marathon is the 1st 20 miles and the second half is the last 6 miles. This couldn’t be more true!!! To make things even more challenging, the sun decided to come out to raise the temperatures (I could have used a little rain at this stage in the game). The last six miles looped around some park. We ran to the park, ran around a lake or pond, then back out of the park to LP Field. Going in and out of the park, the runners passed one another, so when I was at mile 22, I could see the 25 mile marker on the other side and boy I couldn’t wait to get to that other side! At one point when I started to walk, another nice lady runner said, “Come on Kristi, I know you can do this. I’ve been watching you for a long time.” I tried to pick it back up when I could and I’d pass her, then I’d walk, then I’d pass her, then I’d walk and so forth. She also helped keep me going. At another point during the last six miles, there was a Hispanic couple running by me speaking Spanish and jingling tambourine bells. At this point, everything was getting on my nerves and I couldn’t take it any longer…I finally stopped and walked to get away from the noise (although this was probably an excuse for me to walk). Some cheerleaders were handing out candy and I grabbed a piece of Double Bubble…I popped it in my mouth, chewed about 3 times and realized it was too much of an effort to chew the hardest gum in the world, so I immediately spit it out toward the lake. I was actually getting pretty hungry at this stage in the race, and I had already eaten all four of my Clif Shot energy gels…all I wanted were some orange slices and there were none to be seen! After going around the lake, some volunteers were handing out apple slices and Jolly Ranchers…this would have to do, so I grabbed an apple slice and a green apple Jolly Rancher. The candy gave me something to distract me a little, but I still took walk breaks every few minutes. Even with all the walking I did, I was in good shape for a 4:15 marathon until mile 25, then all of a sudden the 4:15 pacer and her group went flying by me….my new mission was to finish, whether I walked, crawled or rolled across that finish line. When I passed the 25 mile marker, I got all emotional again, even though I only had just over a mile left, I didn’t think I could do it anymore, my eyes welled up, but no tears would come out. Some people were handing out beer at around mile 25…I seriously considered taking one, but passed up the offer…no amount of beer was going to numb my pain and I was too close to the end anyway…I think they were also passing out coffee at the end too….kind of weird! I was getting ready to walk again when some guy shouted out, “You only have 0.6 miles to go, you can do it!” I thought, there’s no way I’m walking now…I can’t cross that finish line walking, so I picked up the pace and gave it my all the last 0.6 miles. The crowd was yelling and cheering so loud. I ran so hard that I couldn’t feel anything anymore…as I crossed the finish line, a guy announced my name….wow, what an amazing feeling after all the craziness that just happened; it was just amazing. I’ll have to say that this was a very humbling experience for me because I am an overachiever and thrive on success, on meeting and exceeding my goals. I had my heart set for finishing in 4 hours (if you couldn’t tell from my narrative), but I’ll have to say that I’m very happy that I finished my first marathon in 4:21:12.
My family (Mike, Andrew, Madalyn, and my mom & dad) were there at the finish. They looked a little confused when I saw them and I think it was because I wasn’t jumping for joy. They asked if I was okay and I probably said no. My body hurt and I was starving! I needed something to eat, so I walked over to the tents to get some food. All I wanted were some orange slices and there were none to be seen…I guess I’ll need to bring my own oranges next time since that’s all I wanted to eat. Mike joined me while I ate a bagel and two little containers of peaches. I also found a little patch of grass so I could stretch. After a few minutes, I got up, grabbed a bottled water, had my picture taken with my finishing medal and walked over to my family. Before we left, I stopped over at the medical tent to have my blisters and knee taken care of. Thank goodness I had my Crocs because my feet were a mess…two really nice girls took care of my feet and wrapped an ice pack around my left knee. I grabbed my free beer as I hobbled over to the car.
My mom ran the half marathon. This was her first ½ marathon and she did awesome! She enjoyed every second of the race and I’m so proud that she accomplished her goal. In fact, she beat her time goal by about 15 minutes! She wanted to finish in 3 hours and she finished in 2:46:38. She was grinning ear to ear the whole day and she was celebrating in all of her pictures during and after the race. I’m so thankful that I was there with my mom for her first big race. She even carried her 13.1 mile keychain (the one I got her at the Expo on Friday) the whole way! She was able to survive on eating only one package of Jelly Belly Sport Beans and also avoided drinking the horrible tasting Accelerade. My mom now wants to run a full marathon….this running thing sure is addicting! I’m so very proud of you Mom!!
After we got back to the hotel, my mom and I relaxed on lounge chairs and iced our legs while Andrew and Madalyn swam. I debated on taking an ice bath, but I couldn’t bring myself to sit in ice cold water. After the kids were tired of swimming, we got around and went to Darfon’s Restaurant for dinner. I ordered grilled salmon…mmm, it was so good! Mike, my mom and I enjoyed a glass of Crane Lake Merlot and decided to have another, so I said, what the heck, I just ran a marathon, let’s order a bottle! At home, we can buy a bottle of Crane Lake wine for $3...it was so weird to see “cheap” wine on the menu of a nice restaurant for $20/bottle! After we finished dinner, we actually made it back to the hotel in time for Happy Hour! I had one more drink…what the heck; I just ran a marathon, right? That was my excuse and I was going with it for the rest of the night….it’s not every day that I run 26.2 miles and burn over 4,500 calories; I figured I deserved a treat! We went up to the hotel room; I played a game with the kids, and then went to bed relatively early.
My parents left at 4am on Sunday morning to catch their flight back to Michigan. Mike, the kids and I took our time getting around in the morning…we took advantage of the complimentary breakfast one more time, and then hit the road. We stopped in Kentucky on the way back to Indiana and took a cave tour at Mammoth Cave. It was a nice little side trip and we all enjoyed the sights of the caves. We arrived home at about 8pm Sunday night…back to reality and back to work on Monday. I’ve already been asked if I’m doing another marathon….without question, the answer is “YES”! I just need some time for my shin splints to heal and I’ll be back at it again. Now I know what it feels like to run a full marathon so my goal next time around is to figure out how to quarantine the pain and not allow it to beat me down. I will get a 4:00 hour marathon before I leave this planet…it may not be the next one, but with time and experience, I know I can do it!
Before I close, I want to thank everyone for your support. I am truly blessed to be surrounded by such wonderful people. I also have to thank my family for supporting my running...this is something I do for myself and it takes me away from you, but in the end it makes me a better person. I love you all more than you'll ever know....Mike, thanks for holding things together the last several months while I was working and running. Finishing this marathon really means a lot to me and again, I appreciate everyone's support, prayers, cheers and well wishes. "Don't follow your dreams; chase them" (quote by Richard Dumb).
Friday, we got up and ate a huge breakfast…I ate a made to order omelet with mushrooms, tomatoes, spinach, ham, black olives and cheese with a side of bacon and hash brown potatoes. I also ate a bowl of southern grits (yummy) and some honeydew melon (I wanted to get fueled up for the race). After breakfast, we headed over to the Marathon Expo. I picked up my race packet and changed my starting corral from a 4:30 finish time to a 4:00 finish time (corral 12 to corral 9). Then we walked through all the different vendors. OMG, I couldn’t believe how many people were there! I bought some Pure Fit power bars, a really cool fanny pack, called a “Spipack” to carry my small items during the race and an awesome MuscleTrac roller thing to loosen up my muscles. I also bought my mom and I key chains and magnets/stickers (13.1 and 26.2) so we can be reminded of our experience. My dad and Madalyn were getting tired, so they waited upstairs while we wandered around…we all called it quits after about 3 hours. After the Expo, we went to a free museum downtown. The security guard looked like Elvis, with huge lamb chop side burns!! There was a lot of cool stuff there…I actually enjoyed this museum and was fascinated by the way the early explorers lived and we even saw a 3,000 year old mummy! We made it back to the hotel in time for Happy Hour (which my dad needed after hanging out at the Expo and museum all day)! My parents enjoyed Happy Hour while I sat in the hot tub and watched Madalyn swim. I ate a late dinner of Lasagna and bread at the hotel, and after 7 seven hours on the road, Mike and Andrew joined us at the hotel around 9pm. After dinner, my mom and I organized our things for the race; I took a quick shower to shave my legs and hit the sack a little after 11pm.
The alarm went off at 4am on Saturday morning….it’s “go time”! I was already wearing my sports bra, so all I had to do was lube up with Body Glide, brush my teeth, wash my face and get dressed. I did all that & quickly ate a banana, but for some reason, we didn’t leave the hotel until around 4:40am. The plan was for my mom & me to drive the van and park at LP Field (where the Tennessee Titans play football) and take the free shuttle to the starting line. Mike, Andrew, Madalyn and my dad would take a cab later so they didn’t have to wake up so early. The drive from the hotel to the parking area should have taken 15 minutes, but it took an hour and 15 minutes. I drank a bottle of Gatorade and was working on a bottle of water not knowing I’d be in the car for over an hour. I had to pee so bad I couldn’t stand it and I was getting nervous that we’d miss the shuttle to the starting line (which was scheduled to stop running at 6am). We finally parked at 5:55am and ran over to the bus area…no time to use the port-a-potties!! I thought we’d have plenty of time by leaving so early and at this time I was afraid that we’d actually be late. We hopped on the bus (thank goodness because it was raining) and took what felt like the longest bus ride ever to the starting area. I ate an almond Pure Fit bar on the bus to top off breakfast and drank a few sips of water to wash down the dense and sticky power bar. My mission was to find a bathroom!! We got off the bus and followed the other runners toward the starting area. There was a huge row of port-a-potties (thank goodness)!!!! What I didn’t see at first was the crowd of about 2,000 people waiting to use them! I thought I was going to die…I even considered going in the bushes, but that was almost as crowded as the potty line. We waited and waited and this guy in front of us found a shorter line, so we quickly followed him. I was a bit relieved, but our line wasn’t moving very fast. Come to find out, one of the johns didn’t have TP. A girl behind me found someone with their own roll and asked for a little. She doled out a few squares to a couple of us. I ended up going in the potty with no TP and finally was able to pee (what a relief)….the only bad thing is that I also had to take care of business. The few squares of TP this nice girl gave me weren’t cutting it, so I had to tap into the stock of four tissues I had in my pocket. I ended up using all four tissues right off the bat hoping I didn’t need them later! Okay, now the bathroom mission was complete, the next thing on the agenda was to get to the starting line…it’s now about 6:55am and the race was scheduled to start at 7am! I’m practically knocking people over trying to get to corral 9. I made it just in the nick of time…I gave my mom hugs and kisses, handed her my hoodie and rain jacket and lined up behind the 4:00 hour pace group. I didn’t have time to get a good stretch in earlier, so I was trying to get my stretches in while waiting for our corral release.
Corral 9 took off around 7:15am…it’s now or never and with the craziness of the morning, I wasn’t sure my head was totally in it! I started out running with the pacer (I don’t know how those guys run for 26.2 miles carrying a little stick) and was feeling pretty good. We were right on pace for the first mile (8:59). We were running in the rain to start, but it didn’t matter because of all the built up excitement and adrenaline…the “rolling hills” didn’t even seem so bad at this point. I’m not sure when it stopped raining; I’m guessing round mile 2 or so…it was overcast and somewhat cool (50’s or 60’s)….good running weather. I wore my name on the front and back of my shirt and it was exhilarating hearing so many people cheering for me! A runner behind me commented on how popular I was and I said with a big smile, “I wonder why?” There was a college student passing out Country Music Marathon wrist bands shouting that he’d been up the last 48 hours studying (yeah right). Others were handing out tambourines and everyone rang red cow bells. At some point in the race, a group of people sitting in lawn chairs outside their house cheering everyone on had a huge sign with my name on it! It was even spelled the right way…even though it wasn’t meant for me, it was at that moment. I stayed with the 4:00 hour pack for about 4 miles, and then at the 4 mile mark, I felt really good (especially since I was going downhill). I struggle going up hills, so I was hoping that if I gained some ground, that I’d be able to keep up with them at the end. I was actually ahead of the pack (mile 5 - 8:44, mile 6 - 8:59). I kept hearing Ron Plantz’s voice saying “stick to your plan” and I thought I was doing so well that my plan was to put one foot in front of the other and keep running under a 9 minute mile….I even had visions of Boston in my head (I wasn’t really thinking straight). Well, that didn’t last long and at mile 7 I slowed down to a 9:15 pace and the pacer caught up to me (Mr. Steady Eddie). I hung with the group until about mile 12. Then the real fun began!
The ½ and full marathon courses split at about mile 11. The ½ marathoners went off to the right and the full marathoners went straight up a hill…oh the hills! I was starting to loathe them…they probably weren’t all that big, but my legs were getting really tired and the slightest incline was killing me! At this point I even thought that I’d turn right, go with the ½ marathoners and be done with the madness, but I kept on plugging along. The 4 hour group was getting farther and farther away, but according to my Garmin, my chances of a 4 hour marathon were still good. I wore a bracelet that gave me the time at each mile to accomplish a 4 hour finishing time. I also had the same information tattooed on my left arm and as a back-up a 4:15 finishing time table on my right arm. I was actually on target until about mile 16. The spectators had thinned out and it seemed like more than a mile would go by when I’d see the next band. Some bands were really good, some were bad (too loud and too much rock). I actually enjoyed the country bands even though I’m not a big country music fan. I think somewhere around mile 12 I saw the runners from corral 1 running by me (in the opposite direction). I marked the time (1:43) and remembered a building (some Packaging company) and 1 hour and 6 minutes later I passed the same building (around mile 18)! Whoa, they were running fast! The high school cheer leaders were awesome…I loved them. They’d cheer real loud and even ran with some of the runners. A lot of them would shout out my name real loud all at the same time. There was even a group of nuns cheering us on, then a “holy water” station right after (of course at the top of a hill). I needed all the help I could get at that point! I saw a blind guy running the full marathon with a guide. The guide was in the front and held onto two horizontal white poles while the blind guy held the poles behind him. How amazing is that! Sometime before mile 16 we went off the road and onto a paved trail…it was really desolate at that point…just runners and volunteers and a couple spectators here and there. Some lady tried talking to me and she said this was her 5th marathon; her personal best was something like a 4:26 and said she wouldn’t be able to keep up the pace. I didn’t feel much like talking, but I told her this is my first marathon…she gave me some encouraging words and I wished her well and started to walk. Shortly after that, I was getting the feeling that I was going to have the “runner’s trots”. I had eaten 2 chewable Imodium tablets before the race started and I had two more in my pack. Fortunately, there was a row of port-a-potties right when we came out of the trail (someone was looking out for me)! I ran to the nearest one and took care of business and thank goodness there was ample TP!! This is the first time I stopped moving for about 2 ½ hours…even with this minor break, I ran an 11:28 mile. I ate the remaining two Imodium tablets in hopes that they’d cover me for the last 10 miles….I was out of tissue and now out of Imodium! The next four miles were a blur and after the potty stop, my hope of a 4 hour marathon was gone. I started referring to my right arm which had the 4:15 finishing table on it. I tried to think of so many positive things, like my family (Mike, the kids, my parents), my friends and co-workers (you know who you are) and even asked for Jennie Hamilton’s help. I trained with my friend Tracy (who just ran the Boston Marathon in 3:49) and I was really missing her company. No matter what I did, I couldn’t get rid of the pain and I really wanted to be done! I knew I had blisters on my feet, my left leg hurt from my ankle up to my knee (I’ve been contending with plantar fasciitis, shin splints and knee problems), then my pelvic bone felt like it was splitting in half and the outside of my hips bones hurt so bad I could hardly run. Going around a corner at around mile 18, the nicest lady spectator cheered me on and said, “You’re almost there Kristi, you’ll be so happy when you cross the finish line”. I acknowledged what she said and started to cry, although no tears came out...those words carried me a while and kept me going. A little bit after that, I actually ate a packet of salt! It wasn’t even that bad especially since I chased it down with some water…what the heck, while in Rome, do what the Romans do….I then saw Mike, Andrew, Madalyn and my dad right before mile 20. I gave them high fives and I got all choked up again.
Okay, so everyone says the first half of the marathon is the 1st 20 miles and the second half is the last 6 miles. This couldn’t be more true!!! To make things even more challenging, the sun decided to come out to raise the temperatures (I could have used a little rain at this stage in the game). The last six miles looped around some park. We ran to the park, ran around a lake or pond, then back out of the park to LP Field. Going in and out of the park, the runners passed one another, so when I was at mile 22, I could see the 25 mile marker on the other side and boy I couldn’t wait to get to that other side! At one point when I started to walk, another nice lady runner said, “Come on Kristi, I know you can do this. I’ve been watching you for a long time.” I tried to pick it back up when I could and I’d pass her, then I’d walk, then I’d pass her, then I’d walk and so forth. She also helped keep me going. At another point during the last six miles, there was a Hispanic couple running by me speaking Spanish and jingling tambourine bells. At this point, everything was getting on my nerves and I couldn’t take it any longer…I finally stopped and walked to get away from the noise (although this was probably an excuse for me to walk). Some cheerleaders were handing out candy and I grabbed a piece of Double Bubble…I popped it in my mouth, chewed about 3 times and realized it was too much of an effort to chew the hardest gum in the world, so I immediately spit it out toward the lake. I was actually getting pretty hungry at this stage in the race, and I had already eaten all four of my Clif Shot energy gels…all I wanted were some orange slices and there were none to be seen! After going around the lake, some volunteers were handing out apple slices and Jolly Ranchers…this would have to do, so I grabbed an apple slice and a green apple Jolly Rancher. The candy gave me something to distract me a little, but I still took walk breaks every few minutes. Even with all the walking I did, I was in good shape for a 4:15 marathon until mile 25, then all of a sudden the 4:15 pacer and her group went flying by me….my new mission was to finish, whether I walked, crawled or rolled across that finish line. When I passed the 25 mile marker, I got all emotional again, even though I only had just over a mile left, I didn’t think I could do it anymore, my eyes welled up, but no tears would come out. Some people were handing out beer at around mile 25…I seriously considered taking one, but passed up the offer…no amount of beer was going to numb my pain and I was too close to the end anyway…I think they were also passing out coffee at the end too….kind of weird! I was getting ready to walk again when some guy shouted out, “You only have 0.6 miles to go, you can do it!” I thought, there’s no way I’m walking now…I can’t cross that finish line walking, so I picked up the pace and gave it my all the last 0.6 miles. The crowd was yelling and cheering so loud. I ran so hard that I couldn’t feel anything anymore…as I crossed the finish line, a guy announced my name….wow, what an amazing feeling after all the craziness that just happened; it was just amazing. I’ll have to say that this was a very humbling experience for me because I am an overachiever and thrive on success, on meeting and exceeding my goals. I had my heart set for finishing in 4 hours (if you couldn’t tell from my narrative), but I’ll have to say that I’m very happy that I finished my first marathon in 4:21:12.
My family (Mike, Andrew, Madalyn, and my mom & dad) were there at the finish. They looked a little confused when I saw them and I think it was because I wasn’t jumping for joy. They asked if I was okay and I probably said no. My body hurt and I was starving! I needed something to eat, so I walked over to the tents to get some food. All I wanted were some orange slices and there were none to be seen…I guess I’ll need to bring my own oranges next time since that’s all I wanted to eat. Mike joined me while I ate a bagel and two little containers of peaches. I also found a little patch of grass so I could stretch. After a few minutes, I got up, grabbed a bottled water, had my picture taken with my finishing medal and walked over to my family. Before we left, I stopped over at the medical tent to have my blisters and knee taken care of. Thank goodness I had my Crocs because my feet were a mess…two really nice girls took care of my feet and wrapped an ice pack around my left knee. I grabbed my free beer as I hobbled over to the car.
My mom ran the half marathon. This was her first ½ marathon and she did awesome! She enjoyed every second of the race and I’m so proud that she accomplished her goal. In fact, she beat her time goal by about 15 minutes! She wanted to finish in 3 hours and she finished in 2:46:38. She was grinning ear to ear the whole day and she was celebrating in all of her pictures during and after the race. I’m so thankful that I was there with my mom for her first big race. She even carried her 13.1 mile keychain (the one I got her at the Expo on Friday) the whole way! She was able to survive on eating only one package of Jelly Belly Sport Beans and also avoided drinking the horrible tasting Accelerade. My mom now wants to run a full marathon….this running thing sure is addicting! I’m so very proud of you Mom!!
After we got back to the hotel, my mom and I relaxed on lounge chairs and iced our legs while Andrew and Madalyn swam. I debated on taking an ice bath, but I couldn’t bring myself to sit in ice cold water. After the kids were tired of swimming, we got around and went to Darfon’s Restaurant for dinner. I ordered grilled salmon…mmm, it was so good! Mike, my mom and I enjoyed a glass of Crane Lake Merlot and decided to have another, so I said, what the heck, I just ran a marathon, let’s order a bottle! At home, we can buy a bottle of Crane Lake wine for $3...it was so weird to see “cheap” wine on the menu of a nice restaurant for $20/bottle! After we finished dinner, we actually made it back to the hotel in time for Happy Hour! I had one more drink…what the heck; I just ran a marathon, right? That was my excuse and I was going with it for the rest of the night….it’s not every day that I run 26.2 miles and burn over 4,500 calories; I figured I deserved a treat! We went up to the hotel room; I played a game with the kids, and then went to bed relatively early.
My parents left at 4am on Sunday morning to catch their flight back to Michigan. Mike, the kids and I took our time getting around in the morning…we took advantage of the complimentary breakfast one more time, and then hit the road. We stopped in Kentucky on the way back to Indiana and took a cave tour at Mammoth Cave. It was a nice little side trip and we all enjoyed the sights of the caves. We arrived home at about 8pm Sunday night…back to reality and back to work on Monday. I’ve already been asked if I’m doing another marathon….without question, the answer is “YES”! I just need some time for my shin splints to heal and I’ll be back at it again. Now I know what it feels like to run a full marathon so my goal next time around is to figure out how to quarantine the pain and not allow it to beat me down. I will get a 4:00 hour marathon before I leave this planet…it may not be the next one, but with time and experience, I know I can do it!
Before I close, I want to thank everyone for your support. I am truly blessed to be surrounded by such wonderful people. I also have to thank my family for supporting my running...this is something I do for myself and it takes me away from you, but in the end it makes me a better person. I love you all more than you'll ever know....Mike, thanks for holding things together the last several months while I was working and running. Finishing this marathon really means a lot to me and again, I appreciate everyone's support, prayers, cheers and well wishes. "Don't follow your dreams; chase them" (quote by Richard Dumb).
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About Me
- Kristi Figg
- I work for NiSource (holding company for the local Gas & Electric utility in Northwest Indiana). I've worked for the company for about 13 years and am currently responsible for managing the Financial Planning function. I always say the Accountants have the hard job in closing the books and I have the fun job at "telling the story" about the results. I graduated with a Bachelor's degree in Finance from Michigan State University in 1995 (go Spartans)! I've been married to my husband Mike for 13 years. I have two wonderful children, Andrew (age 10) and Madalyn (age 8).